I don’t know where the unwritten rule came from, but that whole “Three Day Rule” that suggests you wait 3 days before calling a woman for the first time? It’s based on BS and here’s why: – The longer you wait with calling her, the less interested you seem to be.
In fact, if you wait 3 days before calling a woman it’s very possible that she’ll think “how many women did you call before you called ME? Am I girl number 1… or girl number 3!?” I’ve asked a lot of my female friends if they actually thought like this and the majority of them confirmed it.
– The longer you wait with calling her, the less likely it is that she’ll remember who you are. Do you remember the research project where scientists wanted to find out how many times per day an attractive woman was approached by men in one form or another? On average, it’s 7 times per day… so imagine if you’d wait a week before calling… it would make you guy #49, or worse!
– The longer you wait with calling her, the more she’ll suspect you of playing mind games… of pretending to be hard to get. “But two can play that game…” is what she’ll think, so you can bet your ass that she’ll flake on you by not answering the phone, not showing up on the date and so on. If it’s not to get even with you, then it’s to save her honor as a woman. In short, this all means that waiting too long with calling a woman isn’t a good idea, in fact, it’s NEVER a good idea to take a woman’s number without telling her what you’re going to do with it.
Makes sense doesn’t it… and yet I know a total of ZERO guys who actually tell a woman what they’re going to do with her number: when they’re going to call her! I can just hear you think: “but wouldn’t that spoil the surprise, if she knows when you’re going to call?” Well, telling her you’re going to call her tomorrow evening isn’t exactly knowing the EXACT time your going to call her now, is it? In fact, it only makes her anticipate, look forward to, and get nervous about receiving a call from you as soon as the evening starts.
By the time you’re going to call her, she has quietly already waiting for you to call for a couple hours… so it’s a HUGE advantage if you tell her because then she has something to anticipate. So how long should you wait before you call that hot babe? One day.
If you call her the next day you won’t come across like you’re a player or like you’re playing mind games. You’re also pretty sure that she remembers who you are because it was only yesterday that she met you. Plus, waiting a day makes you come across like you actually have a life and that you’re not SO desperate that you have nothing better to do than calling her an hour after you met her like the needy little wussy that you are. No… it makes her want you to call her just enough…
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